Jorge's relationship advice is based on experience and observation. He's seen many people—including himself—get seduced and hurt by love. Love knows no bounds--not even the bounds of orientation.
I know it doesn't sound like a problem: "You're a man and you're obsessed with women? Have you considered running for president?! Of course, according to public perception of a gay man's official responsibilities, loving women is just my bedazzled cross to bear, the GBFF phenomenon being well documented, if only in its most base terms: Let's go shopping!
If you are a single gay man such as myself, how do you find love? More importantly, how do you find love that cannot be bought in a bottle, or prescribed over-the-counter? So why not celebrate that instead?
We work on many work-related projects with one another. We spend Friday nights together. We go out and pick-up guys.
Sign up or log in to share. I noticed you wrote this 4 months ago, and I have no idea if you'll even read this while your friendship is still heating up that way. But that is one of the hardest things.
I had been an openly gay man for six years when I fell in love with a woman I'd known since I was Growing up on the Isle of Wight, we bonded over adolescent heartbreak, which happened to me more than once as I got to know the boys in our year. She was straight, but seemed to understand more than anyone about unrequited love.
Perhaps you have realized you are gay and that you have fallen in love with your friend. You have also probably realized that this is a lot to deal with! You may want to be honest with your friend about your sexuality as well as your romantic feelings.
Brian O'Reilly Twitter Email. I met my current boyfriend through a family friend a few years ago, and after a while we started seeing each other. As our romance developed, my friend seemed to distance himself from me specifically and I think he was unhappy for us.
He's good-looking, hot, smart, sophisticated, fun and sexy. Oh, and one more thing: He's gay. You love your gay male guy, but would you risk falling in love with him?